Young People Plan!

Hello, Seekers of Advice

Before I begin today, I want to let all my seekers know that my internet is currently out. That means, I won't be able to post on the days I've planned to. At least not all the time, as you can see the last post was on Tuesday. And, I didn't post on Friday at all. If you're wondering, how I'm posting this and my internet is off--  I'm using the internet from a friend's house. Okay, the letter of the day is P--for planning.

I am 20 years old, and I've been told like many other young people that living on your own is too much responsibility.  It will be difficult--and blah blah blah...The true is it's not difficult! I think many people tell young adults stuff like that, because of the stereotypes about young people being lazy and irresponsible.
I love to plan out things. In fact, I've planned out my life for the next 10-15 years. Living on your own successfully, comes down to planing. And, I mean extreme planning.

My advice for young adults looking to get out there on their own is to plan. That means, creating a monthly living budget and sticking to it. Make sure to put aside money, in case you want a day of fun--and for emergencies--or for future plans.It takes months sometimes years of saving and preparing to have the things you want. Never loose track of your responsibilities! A great way to remember important things,  is to create a check list. List your monthly bills, rent, food, and toiletry expenses. Check them off, as you complete them.

If you're a single parent; that means you have to plan for yourself and your child or children.  For single parents, don't overwhelm yourself. If your child is old enough, teach them how to plan things to. It will help make things smoother for you, and teach them responsibilities earlier on. Remember seekers, planning is the key to successfully living on your own.

Sincerely,
Your Advisor...

You don't need a closet...

Hello, Seekers of Advice

Today's letter is S--think storage. Okay--I don't literally mean you don't need a closet. What I mean is; if you don't have a closet, it's not the end of the world. I hear it all the time! I need a walk in closet--or I need more closets--or This place doesn't have a closet. To some people not having enough closets is a deal breaker, even if the home is close to perfect. The thing with that is, there are tons of storage solutions besides having a closet. The following is a list of storage solutions:

Beds with drawers.

                                     

Coffee tables with hidden compartments

Side tables with drawers

Aside from the listed options of stylish storage solutions, you have your traditional dressers and amoires. You can also build a built-in shelving unit. Many people are not informed enough about storage solutions, and often rely on closets to help store all their things. My advice to those who lack enough closets--or is missing a closet in a room-- is to explore all possible storage solutions before passing up your next home. You would be happy to know, creating your own storage solutions can be inexpressive.

Sincerely,

Your Advisor...                          

Recommending Films

Hello, Seekers of Advice

Today is Monday, you know what that means? The regular schedule starts! YAY!!! I'm excited about today, and SOA's you're in for a treat!!! today's topic is something upbeat. I realize this blog was turning into a fogging dull one. So let's liven it up just a bit. Today's letter is F--think film. I love watching films. My favorite kinds are animated, fantasy/adventure, and romance. I don't usually recommend films to others. Because I've never met anyone, I felt will be interested in the kind of films I like. Or maybe I assumed this, and didn't take the time to evaluate. 

My advice to those who plan to share a film you enjoyed; to a friend, family member, co-worker, associate, or maybe even a stranger. You must evaluate the person, and think of certain aspects of the film that may appeal to them. The way you do this is simple. OH GOODIE!!! I feel a how to coming on.

So--how do you go about evaluating for recommending a film? It's quite simple, if you know the person already. All you would have to do is tell them about certain parts of the film that would appeal to them. But, say you don't know the person very well. That's when it can be a difficult to recommend a film to someone. However, there are things that indicates the kind of person you may be dealing with.Things to look for when evaluating: attire, posture, habits, tone of voice, facial expressions, and how that person treats others. You can usually tell a lot about someone, from those six things alone. My last piece of advice is, don't assume before closely evaluating.

Sincerely,
Your Advisor...

Depression Solution

Hello, Seekers of Advice

Today's letter, is D--as in depression. I know what you're thinking (who wants to talk about depression?) Truth is, this is a topic rarely discussed. It may be because, not many realize how serious depression is. When depression is addressed, the solutions are often in the form of counseling or medication. Counseling is a great way to fight depression. However, medication can add to existing problems or additional. If your medication is working for you, and you're just fine with it. By all means continue to take your medication.

My Advice to people suffering from depression, is what I call a combination. this combination consists of counseling, and a safe haven within your mind. What I mean is, the best way to deal with depression is to think about how you wish for your life to be. It is a great way to help mend the mind.

However, It can be harmful to stay in your happy place all the time. Because, you can fall out of touch with reality.Use that happy place, as a way to work on accomplishing your goals. If you can picture yourself a more successful and healthier you. Then you can unfold the steps and secrets to reach that you. Your safe haven can also be a hobby, listening to music, drawing, or watching your favorite movies.

Nevertheless, it is always good to talk to someone. Mainly, the one person that truly understands you. If you can't rely on friends, family, or your spouse. A great option is a counselor. Remember depression is only as strong as you allow it to be. With that said, it can be beat!

Sincerely,

Your Advisor...

     

The Middle

Hello, Seekers of Advice

This is my very first blog post for the Open Discussion. Before we begin, I wish to explain my posting style. Every Monday and Friday (I know it's Tuesday! Monday's and Friday's will be in effect next week.) I will pick a letter. The topic, will revolve around that specific letter. So...The letter for today is M. M stands for Middle--or as I call it--The Middle.

What exactly is the middle?

That's a great question! When referring to the Middle, I'm talking about a specific type of person. Some of you might know this kind of person--or maybe--you are this kind of person. I'm talking about someone that doesn't get everything right, but does, get some things right. This kind of person works the hardest, but isn't quite the best worker. I'm talking about people who's neither here nor there. Because of this, they tend to be over looked. Let's face it, in a world that is strictly black and white, it's hard for people of grey.

My advice to people of the Middle, continue to be who you are. I know, it can be difficult when striving for recognition. But, just remember, if you continue to work hard. Someone will eventually notice. You will get your chance. I have faith in people of the Middle, for I am a middle person myself.

Sincerely,
Your Advisor...